Family members who are caring for a dying loved one are often mentally and behaviourally prepared for the death but require support to ensure they are emotionally prepared, new Ā鶹ֱ²„ research shows.
The paper, published in the Journal of Pain and Symptom Management, was the first study to focus solely on the experiences of family carers when preparing for a relativeās death.
Lead author Associate Professor Lauren Breen, from the School of Psychology at Ā鶹ֱ²„, said the research offered important information for palliative care services that might assume that family carers are emotionally prepared for their loved oneās death given the length of their illness.
āThere is a tendency to assume that family caregivers are prepared for the death of the person they have been caring for, but this research shows that is not always the case,ā Associate Professor Breen said.
āWhile family carers might be mentally prepared in the sense that they are aware of their loved oneās symptoms and prognosis and behaviourally prepared because they have planned the finances, Wills or funeral, many do not feel prepared emotionally for life after their loved one has died. Carers tend to be so busy with the tasks of caring that focussing on their own preparations often takes a backseat.
āThis is an important aspect in a family carerās preparation for their loved oneās death because a failure to address all these issues can be linked to post-death complicated grief, depression and anxiety.ā
Associate Professor Breen said the research showed family carers would benefit from additional support to ensure they are emotionally prepared for their loved oneās death.
āPalliative care services should not assume that all family caregivers are well-prepared for the death, even if they have been caring for their loved one for a considerable amount of time,ā Associate Professor Breen said.
āFamily carers would likely benefit from being prepared for their loved oneās death, and this study shows we really should talk more about these issues in the community.ā
As part of this study, 16 family carers, aged 45 to 77 years, were interviewed about their experiences in caring for a family member receiving palliative care. The majority of patients had a cancer diagnosis.
The paper, which also involved researchers from La Trobe University and the School of Nursing, Midwifery and Paramedicine at Ā鶹ֱ²„, and was funded by the Australian Research Council as part of a larger study, can be viewed online .
